Because intimate relationships are challenging every couple will come up against some issue they cannot easily resolve. None of us have all the tools we need to make things better.
No matter how challenging the issues you face as a couple, no matter how discouraged you are, even if only one of you wants to try to turn things around, it is worth the effort.
You may have to work hard, but the effort you put into becoming a better partner will reward you in every aspect of your life.
If you want to have a better relationship you can, regardless of your past or your parents or the challenging partner you picked. With the right kind of help and the right kind of effort you can get to a place where your relationship feels more solid and is more fun.
The two of you can regain the closeness of old while carving out a new way to be together.
DON’T WAIT and DON’T GIVE UP!